Consent is the foundation upon which our community is built. By attending Sapphia events, you acknowledge that you have read, understand, and agree to the following:
- Type of Touch that Require Consent: Consent is required for all intimate touch. Intimate touch includes hugging a semi-clothed person or placing your hand on their lower back when walking past, neither or which is acceptable without Consent. We understand that events can get crowded and we ask that all attendees be careful to avoid accidental casual touch.
- Informed Consent: All individuals involved must discuss and agree to specific activities, clearly communicate their boundaries and desires, and respect the boundaries and desires of others prior to commencing play.
- Safe Words: Safe words can be used, but “No” always means no at Sapphia events. We do not allow CNC scenes in order to avoid any confusion. If you say “No” and your partner does not stop, they will be removed from the event and banned from returning.
- Enthusiast Consent: A reluctant Yes is still a No. If you are not certain, say No. You can always change your answer to Yes later, once you are certain. If your potential partner seems hesitant or uncertain, you do not have Enthusiastic Consent and should not proceed with play.
- Revocable Consent: Consent can be withdrawn at any time. If someone expresses discomfort or changes their mind, immediately cease the activity and respect their decision without question.
- Continuous Communication: Keep communication open and ongoing throughout any sexual activity. Check in with your partner(s) and ensure that all involved parties remain comfortable and enthusiastic about the activities.
- End of Play: Consent ends when you and your partner(s) finish playing and leave the play space. Do not assume they are comfortable with you touching them outside of the play space. Touch outside of the play space must be separately discussed and consented to.
- Intoxication: Consent cannot be given or received when under the influence of alcohol or drugs. If you want to play with someone but they are intoxicated, obtain their contact information and make arrangements to meet up another time.
- Reporting Violations: If you experience or witness a consent violation, report it immediately to the event organizers or consent guardians. We take all reports seriously and will take appropriate action to resolve the situation and keep our community safe.
If you are unable to immediately report an incident that you witnessed or experienced, please do so as soon as you can. Our dedicated inbox for reporting violations is consent@sapphia.org.